There’s More To Love Than Words
September 26, 2011 Leave a comment
If somebody says that they love you, find out what it is that they love.
Do they love your personality, the way you look, your power, your money, your emotional side, or your character?
You may be looking for one thing out of life and that may be in total opposition to theirs. Often people assume that love is mutually tied to the same values. Probe so that you know exactly what love means to them before you start to commit to something that may never change in your favor.
A good example would be you have a relationship based on the fact that you have money and power. These are things that can change and often when they do, so does the relationship. Typically a person’s personality and emotional makeup will not change much.
So the big question is: Do they love you for who and what you are or do they love you for what you have?